Sexy (But please, not sexist) 8 year old re-run and still holds true.

                                              What is Sexy ?????
Sexy is defined as: 

adj sexier, sexiest Informal

1. provoking or intended to provoke sexual interest a sexy dress a sexy book

2. feeling sexual interest; aroused

3. interesting, exciting, or trendy a sexy project a sexy new car

sexily  adv

sexiness  n

     OK. Now that we have that under our belt, lets discuss what most of us think is sexy.

Men have quite a different viewpoint on this. Women however think a nice dress or outfit is sexy. Most will get dressed for a date with a guy or their husband etc., and think they are dressed sexy in whatever they are wearing.  Chances are this is true, BUT......guys are looking at other stuff. Maybe it's because most guys are just plain animals.  Naturally that does not relate to me ???????

     Some guys think their wife is the sexiest person around. OK, so that is probably only 10% or so. The other 90 % are probably going to say the bartender or server at a cool restaurant or bar is.

But that is the wonderful thing about Choice......We all get to make up our rules. We all get to dictate what we think is best.  We all get to lie to our friends, partners, or whoever for the sake of our privacy.

     Find me one business person (guy), or guy flyer, who hasn't checked out some flight attendant and thought she was the sexiest thing in the world.

    Find me one guy who hasn't gone to a parents conference at their kids school who hasn't thought one teacher was really sexy.

    Find me one guy who hasn't looked at a wonderful smile and thought she was the sexiest person with the greatest smile.

     I rest my case.  Guys only care about girls when it comes to the word sexy  (actually, not all guys. )  ?????  We don't care about cars, books, clothing, or anything else.  We care about plain honest to goodness sex and what it does and what it means. I guess the bottom line is simple.

   Most guys are not going to consider this picture sexy.........This one is for you girls.....Payback is definitely a Bitch.  So what have we learned today ????


FYI. Any gender can be substituted for men, women, etc. in any of the above.. Big difference from 2011 to 2019.

Racist.......Sexist.......Rapist.......

Where do we begin ?  Where do we end ?  Who is a Racist ?  Why is everything so questionable ?  Why don't we take the time to think about some of these things, as opposed to listening to every single group that will oppose anything ?  I grew up in New York City where I went to school with every race, every religion, every type of person that I never knew existed.
     

I had black friends, Asian friends, Spanish friends, etc., although back then we didn't call anyone that.  We referred to each other as spics, niggers, wasps, kikes, chinks, goons, guinea, slanty eyes, four eyes, lefty, pimple face, fat boy, along with a million other names.  This was done not out of hate, not out of disrespect, not to be mean, but only we all had nicknames and that was the way it was.  I was about 10 thru my teenage years that I was part of this. We only did this and said this to friends, which in those days was very plentiful.  After all, growing up in NY, there were kids everywhere.
      

 

Then it happened. We grew up, went into the military, went to college, and sort of disbanded and moved to other areas.  And then it stopped.  The language and the maturing and the times seemed to have changed all of us.  We knew that we had become grownups and all that fun stuff was behind us.  But now its all changed and expanded.

Celebrities are being accused of rape, and being sexist. Racism is rampart and getting worse daily. People no longer give a shit about each other.  As a kid, when we were in a fight (which was pretty often) it was over as fast as it started.  We would simple say I give up and that was it.  We would shake hands and were friends again.  Not today..Today you give up and get your gun and shoot the other person.  Athletes are involved in Rape, Racist remarks, and accused of being sexist if you make a wrong remark.
I'm sick of all this shit.  I'm sick of protesters , protesting over everything and causing most of the problems. I'm sick of name calling. I'm sick of bullying. I'm sick of people getting accused of being a rapist for simply making an off beat joke in the office.
Isn't it time we stopped all this crap and begin to worry and be concerned about the important things in life ?